Posted on 15 Mar 2016

What is the appropriate thing to do if there is a part of your child’s body that they don’t like, or that may be causing them pain, or even ridicule?

A recent piece in People Magazine which was picked up by the Today Show, talked about this. For the most part these were very good pieces, even though Ann Curry tried to make it controversial or “edgy.” However, this can be a bit of a sticky subject, but there are some very reasonable things that can be done to find our way through this.

There are certain conditions that absolutely lend themselves to surgical correction in adolescence. Adolescence may even be the best time to do the surgery. In other conditions, the body may still be developing and waiting until later will give a better outcome. Talking with a Board Certified plastic surgeon who has experience with these various procedures will hep you understand the right timing in terms of physical development.

The more difficult issues you have to figure out, actually have to do with the motivation behind going forward with surgery. While some people recommend having the child (let’s say, “patient,” instead of “child”) talk with psychologists to understand the motivation, we don’t really think this is necessary. To us, the best approach is to talk with the patient, and parent to understand what issues are at play. We always treat the patient as an adult, because it’s his or her body that we are talking about. It’s important to have a very honest conversation, even when it can be awkward or embarrassing, and to make the patient an important part of the decision making process. If the patient is in pain because her breasts are too big, or he/she is being called “dumbo” because of ears that stick out, or he won’t take his shirt off or go to the pool because of male breast development, surgery can be a big help in many ways. Parents are sometimes amazed when we talk about this, and their kids open up about how this affects them.

Plastic Surgery Procedures Performed on Young Patients:

But every procedure involves some risks, even if they are minimal, and we have to talk about these. We have to discuss not only what the surgical procedure can do (the benefits), but what the process entails: the fact that there is a recovery process and downtime, that there will be some pain, and that there will be some scars.  In our experience, if the patient is really concerned about a part of their body, he or she will usually be extremely accepting of going through the process to have it corrected.

To be sure, the decision to recommend surgery to anyone is not to be taken lightly, and — perhaps — even more so if the patient is your child. Sometimes though, the procedure can make a world of difference. Contact Dr. Keith Neaman today for a consult and see if your child is a candidate for plastic surgery.

Dr. Keith Neaman

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon at Neaman Plastic Surgery | Learn More

Dr. Neaman is a board-certified plastic surgeon that specializes in surgical body contouring. He prides himself on being on the cutting edge of plastic surgery. He takes an informative approach to each consultation, and through open dialogue and communication, he helps his patients decide on a treatment plan that meets their needs.

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